Honey, Does This Make My Butt Look Big?
A Couple's Guide to Food & Body Talk
Lydia Hanich, MA, LMFT
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Contents and Topics
Introduction
Image Isn't Everything:
Except When She Think It Is
body image, picking outfits, comparing to other women, looking fat, jealousy, feeling ugly, tanning, boob jobs, nose jobs, eye lifts, tummy tucks, liposuction, swimsuits, self hatered, body dysmorphic disorder, aging, perfect body, closet full of clothes, poor body image
To Eat or Not to Eat:
When Food Isn't a Piece of Cake
dessert, dieting, inner battles, fad diets, junk food, celebrating weight loss, her stash, motives
I'm Too Sexy for My Body:
When Baring It All Is Too Much To Bear
sexuality, nudity, physical intimacy, pregnancy, hormonal changes, beauty, touch, desensitization, self-consciousness, judging, ass backwards, sexual positions, vulnerability
Weighty Matters:
When Size Does Matter
weight loss. worthlessness, self-worth, scales, health, obsession, thin, fat, body image, diets, The Atkins Diet, The Zone Diet, The McDougall Diet, Jenny Craig, Weight Watchers, lovability, societal pressure, unresolved feelings, insecurities, appearance, gaining it back, diet books, magical thinking, fraudulent claims, hiding the scale, good intentions
Getting Physical:
When Exercise Is More than a Brisk Chat
exercise programs, exercise sprees, aerobics, strengthening, stretching, abilities, exercise equipment, personal trainers, overexercisers, weight and exercise, exercise buddies, fitness levels, couch potatoes, exercise addiction
This Time I'm Serious:
When Things Get Really Heavy
psychological problems, eating disorders, depression, anxiety disorders, substance abuse, obsessive-compulsive disorder, sexual abuse, gastric bypass surgery, compulsive exercise, bingeing, vomiting, undereating, severe weight loss, anorexia, shame, binge eating disorder, professional help, laxatives, emetics, bulimia, diet pills, diabetes, high blood pressure
It's a Man's World:
Or at Least It used To Be
masculinity, compulsive exercise, steroid use, chronic dieting, height, high heels, comparing with an ex, baldness, self-esteem, erectile dysfunction, virility, clothes, big eaters, nose hair, ear hair, aging
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